Sunday, November 14, 2010

Help with girls. Girls advice deeply appreciated?

So i'm 18 years old. The thing is I wasn't created in a balanced way. People have always told me I am gorgeous, I am always getting insane eye contact from beautiful girls in manhattan (i live there), people tell me i look like robert pattinson etc. etc. ,



The thing is my personality sucks %26amp; I am shy. i have no idea what to say to girls, how to intrigue them, how to approach them, what to say to them, how to keep them interested, I basiclly suck! Help me!Help with girls. Girls advice deeply appreciated?
Honestly i think the shy guys are the best ones they are not so full of themselves but start with simple things like if the girl stares smile at her, in class or somewhere where you would be sitting close to a girl just say something casual nothing like hitting on her just keep it simple. You will eventually get comfortable with talking to girls just dont make such a big deal out of it.Help with girls. Girls advice deeply appreciated?
haha im the same way, i hav a hard time approaching guys so they pretty much approach me lol. just let grls approach u and u should find the right grl.(especially since u look like robert pattinson haha)
really try to put yourself out there, dont hold back but dont be annoying or anything. even if you dont have confidance, try to act like you do
just try to be out of your comfort zone for a few days and youll see the results. soon youll be confident enough to do it all the time
First, Robert Pattinson isn't good looking so don't compare yourself to him. You're probably better looking than that creep. Second, when people say be yourself they mean it. Just be the way you are when you're around family and friends that you're comfortable being you around. I used to be shy around guys too and I was always afraid of messing up thinking they weren't going to like me. I realized that after I started being stupid and just being me that more guys started to like me, which actually now isn't good since i have a boyfriend who I'm deeply committed to. People aren't perfect and if you try to be perfect and don't make mistakes or be stupid or say stupid things, they're going to think you're stuck up and won't want to be around you. Just find things that the girls you like are interested in and try to learn more about those things so they know you're interested in them. Really just follow that saying and just be yourself.
I doubt your personality sucks!! I am shy too, but I don't think of myself as boring. Don't bring yourself down. I'm sure you're intriguing once someone gets to know you. The girls who find you attractive should care about who you are too, not just your looks. Just let the girls come to you, and if you like her things will just flow.

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